Here’s How To Get Over The Loneliness Of VO Work
Hey there, hero!
It’s no secret that voice over talent spend a lot of time by themselves.
It’s rare that we get to go to a studio for an audition these days, and even the work tends to be done in our home studios more often than not.
That can make for a really isolated existence, and it can affect all aspects of your work.
Here’s a way to combat that, and it comes with an added bonus.
Hope this helps!
David
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well hey there hero it’s David H
Lawrence 17th and this video is being
recorded I think we’re up to 335 videos
now we’re into the month of December for
these videos and this one’s coming from
my voiceover studio and it’s interesting
because I look at this as kind of my
Batcave you know it’s where I get my
work done it’s where I do a lot of
things by myself in private not just my
voiceover work but a lot of the course
creation work that I do the coaching
that I do the content production that I
do in other areas client services
production partner services I do a lot
of it all by myself and I bet you do as
well voiceover has turned into a very
very solitary existence and it’s because
the the way the Internet has
disintermediated our business there’s
the opportunity to go into a studio to
go somewhere to get in the car or get on
public transportation and go somewhere
to do an audition and many cases do work
has become kind of rare and lovely and
oh there’s still a Sun and other people
right so as voiceover talent we’re often
in a situation where we’re all by
ourselves and it can cause feelings of
loneliness feelings of disconnectedness
with the the rest of the world and it
can start to affect our minds it can
start to affect our performances it can
start to affect our relationships when
the phone rings instead of getting upset
that the phone you know the we forgot to
turn the ringer off and it interrupted
your recording it’s like Oh somebody
wants to talk to me hold on one second
I’ll be right back microphone right so
let me also caution you that that kind
of isolation can also cause a kind of
isolation of thinking and a well I’m on
my own so I better figure this out on
myself so I’ve got a couple
suggestions for you on how to combat
this how to you know sort of balance in
your life this this feeling of isolation
and the things that that can cause
number one create relationships with
real human beings in the business and
outside the business that take you
outside this very small sphere of
influence take you like I join meetup
groups
I joined lots of committees and
subcommittees at the Union to many this
year maybe but I want to get that human
contact that you don’t get when you’re
sitting here in front of a microphone
and just doing the work also get out
there and take some acting classes get
on stage get on camera because the super
awesome part of that is not just that
you will meet other people and create
relationships and and add to your life
experience but you’ll become a better
performer you’ll see some archetypes
that you’ll grab and you’ll use as a
voiceover performing that you wouldn’t
have known about had you not gotten out
and gotten some some fresh air and some
new new interfaces with people you’ll
find techniques and things that other
actors do that you’d like to emulate
you’ll also find some things that you
think to yourself never gonna do that
ever both on mic and on camera and
sometimes in person right so this notion
of being by yourself and thinking that
you have to be independent 100% of the
time or you’ll never succeed is
something that I’d like to invite you to
reconsider and creating those external
connections will do more than just get
you out of the space that you’re in it
will also make you a better performer
which is what we all want right tell me
what you think about this if you notice
that in the last 10 or 15 years that
what we do for a living has become
smaller and smaller and smaller in terms
of where we actually perform the
auditions and the work have you noticed
that what have you done about that what
have you done to create those new
relationships and those ongoing keep
those ongoing relationships going let me
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I live in a suburb of a suburb, but I do get out of my house twice a week for martial arts, and once a week for playing a collectible card game with friends called Magic the Gathering. I’d like to fit in some acting classes but time and money always seem to be a factor. It does get a little lonely here sometimes during the day, even with three cats. Thanks for the advice David. Those are great things to think about.
Ha, laughed when you said the cell phone ringing is a good sign when recording, not an interruption. Someone wants to talk to me! I’ve only been doing this for 5 months and this video rang so true. Great lesson, I’ve got to get out more, with people
Being a very outgoing person, who gets their energy from other humans, the fact that my creative outlet choice forces me to be by myself so much is a big issue. So thank you for bringing this up and giving suggestions for making more external connections.
As for my coping mechanisms, I have been taking Improv classes with Comedy Sportz, and working with a Gaming Broadcast Company (Quests & Chaos), both of which get me out of the house to hangout and collude with other people. I also regularly role-play games at home with a few friends, which keeps up my spirits and brings me energy for my VO work. Thanks again for your advice on this fact of VO-life.
I like being alone in my booth on most days but I do get up and stretch every hour and chat with the hubby. We call our place Google light because we meet in the middle to chat and then go back to work. I also make sure we go out into the world and meet new people. It helps with character development too. I have met so many characters at meet-ups and events.